I believe in letting my girls show their sense of individuality. Whether it be through art, choice of shoes, choice of clothes, to how they wear their hair, I will let them shine in their unique way. Lately Isabella has proven that point to me--that she is indeed her own individual. If we have somewhere to go that day I will assist her in picking out an outfit--usually by picking out some outfits or cute summer dresses and letting her choose from the selections that I have set out.
But if we aren't going anywhere, which to be honest we don't do a lot of since Brynlie was born, I let her pick out her outfit for the day. This will usually end up with the result of a bright striped skirt that she will wear as long as it is folded and put away in her dresser, a bright Hannah Montana shirt that was given to her from a certain someone (thanks, Mom!) and her silvery glittery Mary Jane shoes that we bought last fall--sans socks of course.
I love it when I tell her that it's time to get dressed and she runs into her bedroom so fast to pick out the outfit of the day. I love seeing her experiment with different clothing options, learning what matches and what doesn't (although to be honest, we haven't hit that mark yet), and just watching her individuality shine through. She is her own person, her own little being.
I think that there are a lot of people out there that pressure their children to look and dress a certain way at all times. I agree that there is a time and place for my three daughters to look put together, but if we're at home why not let them choose their unique look? Eventually they will each have their own sense of style and I love having them experiment when they are little. While I would never pick out Isabella's concoction of clothing pieces, I would never tell her to change her clothing choices either. It makes her who she is and not a little cookie cutter of a child.
What about your child? Do they like to pick out their own outfits? Is there something that they add to their look that will show off their true personality? I cannot wait to read your submissions! Children and their individuality is what sets them apart from their friends and siblings, don't you think?
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My daughter is 18 months, she could care less about her clothes but she has a shoe problem already. :) She picks her red, white and blue flip-flops, that my mom bought her for the fourth of July, almost everyday. It is fun watching them develop their own personalities.
I still pick out clothes for the boys, it's just so much easier.
I think this post is missing a picture ;)
My three girls are 4, 2, and 1. None have shown an interest in picking out their own clothes. However, I'm really glad I read this because I think you have some great ideas. So I think I may start with my oldest and let her decide on the days we are home and then give her variety when we need to go somewhere! :)
girlfriend loves to dress herself and i am all for it! this is the time that is doesn't matter plus they are finding "their" style. i love it :)
I was hoping for a pic of one of her more unique choices! & yes, the girls love the days that they just get to pick their own clothes! If I have to help them plan, I try to get their opinion in advance so I know they'll feel cute in whatever they're wearing.
The only place I have to draw the line is with Allie's shoes and socks selection. :-) She'd wear slipper socks and mary jane's everywhere if she thought I'd let her!
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